
back home in kaysville
Getting Home Early
We had a three-year assignment to serve in Samoa, but we returned a year and a half early. When preparing to move home, we ran into an unexpected conflict with the people renting our house. Foolishly, I had drawn up an ironclad rental contract that protected us if the renters moved out early, but it made no provisions for our needing to return early. They had legal rights in the matter, forcing us to rent another house while we worked through the situation.
While we were navigating these stressful logistics, Kathy became pregnant with Adam, our fourth child and third son. Eventually, the renters found another house, and just before Adam’s birth, we were finally able to move back into our Victorian home. However, the conflict left a lingering cloud of bad feelings in the neighborhood.
When I first returned to our downtown Kaysville home, I joined a carpool to work in Salt Lake City. On the very first day they picked me up, I discovered that the former renter of my home was also a member of the carpool. At first, the tension between us was palpable.
A few days later on the way home, he mentioned to the group that he had bought a new gas dryer but didn’t have a gas hookup at his current place. No one else volunteered, so I offered to help him run the line. While working side-by-side on the installation, the ice melted. We began talking openly, gradually moving to our past rental conflict, and we both gained a genuine understanding of each other’s positions. As it turned out, his family still lived in our congregation. That next Sunday, we ended up sitting directly behind them at Church. When the meeting over, we turned around, started talking, and became fast friends. They were from New York and we were from Los Angeles; we were both in Utah without family connections, so we formed our own. We gardened together, shared family activities, and frequently visited each other’s homes.




Trains and Lost Paychecks
While family visits like a trip with my dad provided wonderful breaks, my daily focus was centered on my new role as Payroll Manager. On one memorable visit from California, my dad—a former train mechanic and absolute expert on steam engines—took us out to Promontory Point, Utah. It was a wonderful chance to see where the golden spike connected the rails from the East and West. Dad struck up a conversation with the engineer, and we were even invited inside to see exactly how the locomotive operated. The boys absolutely loved it.
A few months into my job, my former boss from Samoa requested a special payroll concession as he was relocating to another country. Only the Payroll Manager had the authority to grant this favor, and he was sent directly to my office. I am so glad this happened because it forced me to assess my true feelings. I decided right then to let God, not me, judge what had happened in Samoa. I chose to forgive and move on. Forgiveness felt good, and because of that choice, the memories of my service in Samoa have remained sweet.
Shortly after, I experienced a true crisis. Paychecks were printed at an off-site technology center about a block away. An employee from the treasury department and I would check out a fleet car, drive to the tech center, and use a unique signature plate to manually “sign” thousands of employee paychecks. One afternoon, we packed up the signed checks into the back of a fleet station wagon, and the treasury representative checked the car back into fleet services before we had unloaded it.
I stepped a few feet away, and someone immediately hopped into the car and drove off with all the paychecks in the back. The new driver had no idea what he was transporting; he was just headed out of town on business, and there were no cell phones to reach him.
I took the problem to my boss, who set a lifelong example for me on how to manage a crisis. He immediately called his supervisors together to focus entirely on exploring recovery plans and replacement options. Fortunately, the paychecks surfaced when the driver stopped outside Salt Lake City, looked into the cargo area, and realized what he had. He immediately drove back to fleet services. Once the checks were safely recovered, my boss called another meeting to implement a new procedure to ensure it could never happen again. There was never a single effort made to point fingers or assign fault—only a focus on solving today’s problem and preventing tomorrow’s. Finding blame is a waste of time, and that has been my management style ever since.




Opportunities and Technology
While serving as Payroll Manager, I was given another unique, deeply personal assignment. Elder Yoshihiko Kikuchi was called as a General Authority Seventy and was moving his family from Japan to Salt Lake City. I was asked to meet with him weekly for several months to help orient him to life in the United States and assist with his paperwork. Every single week I visited, he treated me like an honored guest; to him, it was a privilege to see me. Once, months later, he spotted me across a crowded hardware store, waved enthusiastically, and came over to introduce his wife to Kathy and me. He had become a true friend, and that orientation role remains a special privilege in my memory.
Professionally, the momentum kept building. In 1983, the Church became an early adopter of direct deposit payments for its employees, which was a massive undertaking given the size of the payroll. A significant operational issue was that direct deposit would eliminate the check “float” the Church experienced with physical checks, where cash remained in the Church’s bank accounts for weeks until employees cleared them. With direct deposit, the funds leave the account instantly on payday.
The top leadership concluded that because it was the employees’ money, keeping the float was just a windfall to the organization, and ensuring employees were paid promptly was the right priority. When they decided to move ahead, I was put in charge of promoting the program. Because so many employees lived outside of Utah, direct deposit alleviated the massive logistical pressure of delivering paper checks on time worldwide.
My goal was to achieve a 70% employee participation rate. I made presentations to groups of several hundred employees at a time in Salt Lake City and designed flyers for those stationed elsewhere. Participation quickly blew past 70% and eventually settled in the 90% range. I reported our progress weekly using charts and graphs, and it was thrilling to be at the forefront of something so modern. And really, who doesn’t choose direct deposit now?
Mom’s Passing
It was during this time of immense professional momentum that our personal world changed completely. In 1984, my mother was diagnosed with cancer. Dad, at 77, was actively serving as the bishop of a singles’ ward at the time. Though her breast cancer was successfully removed, new symptoms emerged just weeks later, revealing a malignant brain tumor. Undeterred, she and Dad decided they would continue serving their ward together until the very end.
When she unexpectedly developed a sudden respiratory infection, we realized her time was short. Kathy and I left Salt Lake City right after work on a Friday and drove through the night to Lakewood. I arrived at the hospital front door early Saturday morning. The front desk called her room to announce my arrival, and I headed upstairs. She passed away after that phone call reached the room, but just before I walked through the door. I firmly believe she held on just long enough to know I was there to be with Dad. Ultimately, I view that sudden respiratory infection as a blessing that spared her from the future deterioration of the brain cancer.
When she had first entered the hospital, Dad and the stake president gave her a priesthood blessing, with the president acting as voice. He blessed her to live and continue her beloved genealogy work. However, Dad had an extremely restless night, awakening with the distinct impression that they had given her the wrong blessing. The next morning, he called the stake president back to the hospital. They gave her a new blessing, this time promising her peace as she entered a new world. She passed away the following morning.
The stake president spoke at her funeral and shared a perspective that has brought me comfort ever since. He noted that her future was indeed to continue her genealogy work, but on the other side of the veil rather than this one. He said, “Now that the lights are out in her own room, she will be able to see more, know more, and meet more ancestors. Now she will be able to direct those here to the proper records. Those who have survived her must continue with her desire, for she will inspire, bless, and help.”


Moving On
Following these events, Kathy and I began planning to construct a solar-heated home in Alpine, Utah—a very early, energy-efficient design. The blueprints were drawn, but life took us in a different direction before we could close on the lot.
Kathy’s mother and my father were both living alone now and facing mounting health problems. Dad had recently suffered a fall and lay on the floor for two days before anyone discovered him. We realized we needed to change our priorities, choosing to move to Southern California to be closer to them.
This was a major career sacrifice. At the time, I was being groomed to run the entire Church accounting system, and my bosses were deeply disappointed when I requested the transfer. To this day, I still occasionally wonder if I made the right decision, but family had to come first.
The story of Kathy & Ron Goodlad
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