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My story starts with my grandfather, David Goodlad. Because of religious bigotry, he lost everything after joining The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in 1906. His hardware store in Nuneaton, England, had been prosperous, but after his conversion, his community refused to buy from him, and his bank failed to renew his lease, so his business closed. He never financially recovered from this setback. He moved with his family to Canada and then to the United States, eventually settling in Heber, Utah, and later relocating to Salt Lake City to support them. My grandfather was a spiritual man whose experiences led him to the restored gospel of Jesus Christ at all costs.
My dad, Ivor Goodlad, was born to David and Lillian Goodlad in England. But they migrated to North America when he was only three months old, and he mostly remembered being raised in Salt Lake City. As was the norm in England, Dad was expected to leave school after seventh grade to help support his family. He did so, leaving behind his hope of someday attending college. Dad always had a strong desire for further education. He took college classes into his 70s. He honed his mechanical skills as a railroad mechanic working on steam locomotives. Later, he spent over thirty years at Stauffer Chemical, retiring as their Maintenance Manager with equipment covering many acres. When a piece of equipment failed, Dad prayed for a solution and was guided to visualize the problem and then direct his employees on how to fix it. Known as “the magic wand man,” he attributed this ability to divine guidance. After his retirement, he was replaced by a college-degreed engineer, with a second engineer added soon due to the heavy workload Dad had handled.
Dad grew up poor and wanted to spare me his hardships and the bias he experienced from his lack of formal education. He set a great example of the success brought about by hard work, but didn’t require the hard work from me as I grew up. I had no chores and received most things simply because I wanted them. There is no question that he loved me but he didn’t require of me the very things that brought about his success. I was taught the high values of our religion but for some reason it took years and mistakes to plant those values in my own heart. I just didn’t put out the effort to believe.
One of my earliest memories dates back to when I was five years old. We were at my grandparents’ home celebrating Grandma Goodlad’s 75th birthday. We were watching TV, and I was sitting on Grandma’s lap. I commented to her about something on the TV screen, but she didn’t respond. I repeated it, but there was no response. Dad then picked me up off her lap and took a closer look at her and found that something was medically wrong. She’d had a stroke. Grandma lived eight more years, but never spoke intelligibly again and could only move her left arm. Otherwise, she was paralyzed. We visited her every Sunday for the rest of her life. I’m glad we went often, so she wasn’t left alone. She would try to talk, but it would come out garbled and not understandable. I remember seeing in her eyes that she wanted to communicate. Since then, I have thought about her situation in light of my religious beliefs. She was there as an intelligent spirit trapped inside a broken body. She wanted to communicate, but couldn’t get past the broken body. How frustrating that must have been for her.



Dad set a strong example by the way he treated my mother, Lucille. Once, when Mom was on her knees scrubbing the kitchen floor, Dad walked through the room and said, “My queen will not do this kind of work,” and finished the job himself. I learned from Dad that our wife is someone special to protect, and that I should always try to lighten her load.
Dad was always ready to help those in need. When an employee showed up for work intoxicated several times at Stauffer, Dad was told to fire him, but chose not to. Rather, he encouraged him to attend AA meetings and even took him there to get started. The man stayed with Stauffer until after Dad’s retirement and often shared his rescue story at our home. Dad served as a bishopric counselor for nearly 20 years before becoming the bishop of a singles ward at age 73, serving for three years until Mom passed away.
My mother thought she had a great musician in me. I’m afraid I turned out to be a disappointment. She was told about a teacher who had instructed many great pianists. I started piano lessons with her at the age of nine. There was a monthly concert at her huge home. Each piano student was expected to perform at his best in front of his peers. We were also expected to write down the beat (3/4, 4/4, 6/8, etc.) of each piece that was performed. I had no idea how to do this. We would then exchange papers and grade results. I typically scored in the 20% range or lower. They performed their music brilliantly, and I didn’t. I continued “studying” there into my teens, when the instructor finally asked my mother not to bring me back. The instructor was no doubt brilliant. Her amazing students demonstrated this at the monthly concerts. I went each month to perform in front of them, but having no talents to show, and I always left entirely humiliated by the experience. In the end, I only demonstrated how great a mistake it was to try to bring the music out of me. I have never tried to play piano since then.
It happened suddenly when I turned 13. My emotions shifted rapidly and frequently, often fluctuating between manic and depressed. Experience has taught me that stress is my big trigger. Teenage hormones and a series of difficult experiences probably put me into that stressed mindset. Many decades later I was diagnosed with type 1 bipolar disorder.
I had good friends in high school, mostly those who traded car parts and worked on project cars.










Aso at 13, Dad bought me a Ford V8 engine to “play with”, which sparked my passion for cars. I soon became a skilled mechanic, able to tune vehicles for performance. I seemed to have an instinct for mechanical things. I once tuned a friend’s 1956 Chevy dual four-barrel setup in exchange for a non-running but hot-rodded 1936 Ford Coupe. I was too young to appreciate the beautiful, hot-rodded flathead Mercury engine it had. I could only see that it wasn’t a “modern” Chevy engine, and I sold the car quickly.
At 16, my dad bought me a 1955 Chevy, equipped with a very quick 283 ci Chevy engine (that could hit 9,000 RPMs), and I got a ticket for racing on my first night out. There were many more tickets ahead. At 17, he traded it for a 1967 Sunbeam, hoping to slow me down. I wasn’t allowed to drive it to school at first, but I was promised it would be mine after high school graduation. (I wasn’t planning to finish high school then.) When I graduated, it became mine.
Dad usually drove nice cars, like Cadillacs and Buicks, but he bought a pink Rambler station wagon in 1959 after a bad experience with a Buick. I thought he did it to ruin my high school experience. Sometimes, when my Chevy was down, I was stuck with the Rambler. It was PINK!! Today, anything goes when building a street rod, even old Ramblers. Maybe even pink ones.
I have never been in love with school. I like to learn by doing. I seriously considered dropping out of high school because I didn’t feel like I belonged there. My grades inconsistently swung between A’s and F’s, depending on the mood of the semester. In a math class, Mr. Glasser, a former business owner turned teacher, became a pivotal figure in my life. He saw my struggles and invited me to his beachfront home for hamburgers, sodas, and conversation any time I needed to talk. He listened, offered guidance, and finally convinced me that I was worth educating. This changed everything; I finished high school and scored highly on the SAT. While others doubted me, Mr. Glasser said, “I knew he could do it.” Thank you, Dan Glasser. I was still unclear where this education would take me but I knew that it was beyond high school.
As mentioned earlier, I lacked the self-esteem and self-discipline to stand firm on the values I had been taught and succomed to peer pressure to choose a different path. I knew those values were right but I just wanted to fit in. Add to this the confusion caused by the bipolar disorder I was lost for awhile. I received eight tickets in six months, including one for driving 115 mph in a 35-mph zone on a foggy night (!!!). That was my third ticket that night (!!!!). The officer’s emergency elsewhere prevented my arrest. For a brief period, I began drinking. I woke up one morning with the distinct feeling that I was headed to addiction. I have never had an alcoholic drink since. I knew I needed to change, and I went to the DMV and voluntarily surrendered my driver’s license, believing I would not change my driving habits any other way. When I reported to the judge about my crazy three-ticket night, he noted that I had surrendered my driver’s license. He set aside any financial penalty and had my license suspended for a year, after which my record was sealed.
At about 17, I had a traffic accident while speeding in the Sunbeam, prompting my dad to lecture me about my recklessness. During the lecture, I walked out the front door, saying nothing. I never called. I stayed with friends for three months, cutting off all contact with them. They did not know these friends or where I was during those months. One evening, a church youth leader, whose name I do not remember, came to the place I was staying. I have no idea how he found me. He took me to dinner, where we had a chance to connect. Encouraged by him, I returned home.
Jerry Eynon, a church youth leader, spent a great deal of time with me in his apartment. He helped me deepen my relationship with God and navigate the spiritual growth process. His help eventually led me to serve a mission for the Church.








Shortly after graduating from high school, I was hired by George Chevrolet as a lot boy. My job was to keep new and used cars clean and customer-ready, including washing hundreds of vehicles. I enjoyed being around cars and ensured that they all looked great. They once had a 454-cubic-inch Corvette in the showroom. It was rated at 460 horsepower, which left me dazzled. A customer wanted to take it for a test drive before buying it. A salesman came to me to get it ready, including a warm-up run on a freeway. That was a fun drive!

Also at 19, the triggers that brought the bipolar symtoms had diminished. Growing out of the hormone filled teenage years, and returning to a value system that I had always belived in took some self-induced stress from me. The bipolar disorder has affected me throughout my life, mostly during high stress periods. Even at 75 years old I have to be ever mindful of the need to regularly center myself.ncrease exposure and promote your eco-ethical image with Non-Woven, Recycled, Wholesale Reusable grocery Bags. Koosmo is fully customizable, guaranteed to capture your brand aesthetic and convey your promotional message.
I developed a strong desire to return to the life I knew was right, I began seeing life from a spiritual context. Jerry Eynon’s influence was vital as I sought God. I spent some months sorting through my life and my relationship with God. I studied the Book of Mormon and instantly knew that it is the word of God. I knew that I wanted to devote my life to obeying God. I decided it was right to serve as a full-time missionary for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I was called on a mission to serve in Washington, D.C., which deepened my faith as I taught the gospel of Jesus Christ and baptized several individuals. An interesting thing happens when you serve. Your past doesn’t matter. God calls you to serve, and you are a different person. This experience redirected my adulthood, focusing me on spirituality and helping others. I had much more to learn about forgetting myself and serving others, but my faith in Jesus Christ and His restored Church was now at the core of my being.
Spirituality had become centrally important to me. I wanted to know God better. Be more obedient to His guidance. To serve others. Although still growing, I had found a life path that would carry me through the good and bad that would come in life.
Missionary Experience
One of my favorite mission experiences took place in Westminster, Maryland, where we went door-to-door seeking those interested in our message. Debby, a young mother, welcomed us in, and we shared the story of Joseph Smith’s first vision, which intrigued her. We had an appointment to return the following week to teach more. She called later that day to ask us to teach her husband, Ron. We returned that evening. He was receptive and quickly made lifestyle changes to fit what we taught. They were baptized a few weeks later, having found doctrines to fill the holes in their faith left from their previous church experiences. I am still in touch with this family. They have been firm and faithful since. They have told me that over fifty Church members, including six missionaries, came from their home. I am proud to be a small part of their story.


I am grateful for the opportunity to have served and helped others come to know and embrace the gospel of Jesus Christ. I appreciate President Edward Drury Jr., our mission president, for his support during my adjustment to missionary life. My training companion, Tom Slack, taught me the gospel and how to teach it. I completed my mission honorably and returned to Lakewood, California, to build my future.
The Lord is always there for us. When we stray from His path, He will guide us back if we allow Him. He will send others to help us when needed. The angels sent into my life were often disguised as everyday mortals. No one is too far gone to be reached. I have found that God is always patiently waiting for us to come to Him. God measures time in eternities, not weeks, months, and years. The years it took me to completely put Him first are irrelevant to Him. I kept trying. I began figuring it out. And that’s what is essential.
The story of Kathy & Ron Goodlad
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