i love kathy more because i love god first

You might think that I can give Kathy the most love by making her first in my life. It isn't so. As I have put God first, a couple of things have happened. Loving God has given me a greater capacity for love. I can have greater love for more people because of my love for God is first. This capacity for love has given me more love to give Kathy. Moreover, my making God as my priority has changed me so that Kathy has moved ahead of myself in priority. So, Kathy is loved more because I love God first.